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[xannux]

to all my dear friends at GS...    i am desperately in need of help for a friend.  Lady akasha has preveiwed a great explanation on energy vampires but now i need tools to deal with one.

My cousin is at the end of her rope.  She deals with a woman each day who i believe is a energy vampire and she is literally sucking every last inch of my cousin away.  This is not as easy as avoiding this woman..  she is carer for 15 disabled people and shares work shifts with this lady about three times a week.  i promised her (yes i had a beer or two) that my friends at GS would give me the tools or a spell or something ,,   we could throw holy water over her lol. .. to help her get through the day with her.

BEGGING GROVELLING ANYTHING.........  please anything at all  

[Frankietwothumbs]

I don't know if this will work in your situation but a boot to the head tends to care of the people who bug me.

[xannux]

I don't know if this will work in your situation but a boot to the head tends to care of the people who bug me.

OH PLEASE !!!!!  you are the biggest softie i have come across on these boards frankie... lol ..  Just wait till you are at the bottom of that list for 'say something nice about the previous poster' thread..  i will so dob you in for being just lovable        

[Frankietwothumbs]

AWWWW........





P.S. Never mistake kindness for weakness.........   

[xannux]

P.S. Never mistake kindness for weakness.........   

*winks* you and i are on the same page  

[Frankietwothumbs]

[GypsyPsychic]

Is this woman aware she's an energy vampire?  My own brother saps energy- but he's not aware of it, so simple mental blocking techniques work for me when I go to the few family things he's attending.

I'll send out positive, protecting vibes for your cousin though.

[Tantric Kitten]

White light!!!  Have your friend surround herself with a dome of white light.  Add into that light that all negativity will bounce off and all negative people will be repelled.

That, and be sickeningly sweet to the energy vampire.  This woman feeds off of negativity -- so your cousin can't give her any.  Tell her to smile in her face and sweetly either go along with everything or if the request is totally outrageous, smile, say ok and then do what's right.  

Hopefully the combination will drive the other person nuts and she'll quit.

[MoonLite]

Here's a couple that I've come across myself recently:  

Protecting the Solar Plexus

This one is meant to help rebuild and strengthen the auric field and stop negative energy penetrating it:
7 Breaths - Cleansing & Protecting the Aura

So true though isn't is that some people just don't realise that they are energy sapping vampires!   Loved your idea of being sickenly "sweet" Tantric Kitten - think that's a great idea.    Someone the other day suggested that I sit in my nice cosy bubble of protection and try send positive loving feelings if I came across anyone being negative... I guess a similar idea.    

This idea come from Cassendra Eason's (2002) "Crystal Healing Essentials"... I haven't tried myself, but maybe your friend could see if this one works...

A pointed piece of either rose quartz or amethyst is meant to be very protective.  Eason suggests keeping a piece of either of these with the point facing the wall, under normal circumstances.  But if an unwelcome visitor comes in your direction, turn the point to face them.  Apparently this acts as a barrier and repels your unwanted visitor, making them head off in a different direction.  

Now off to find Lady Akasha's "energy vampires".   

Edited by Angel, 10 November 2005 - 12:05 PM.

[dtommy79]

I'm not an expert on this, but I guess if you say to her something totally unexpected or even embarassing or something that would make her feel uncomfortable that might work. If you control the situation she won't be able to feed.

[Tantric Kitten]

dtommy, this was eight years ago.  I'm sure the situation's been resolved one way or another.

[Ghuoest]

dtommy79, on 17 August 2013 - 10:55 AM, said:

I'm not an expert on this, but I guess if you say to her something totally unexpected or even embarassing or something that would make her feel uncomfortable that might work. If you control the situation she won't be able to feed.

Sounds like throwing gasoline on a fire.

[CDS]

xannux, on 10 November 2005 - 04:38 AM, said:

to all my dear friends at GS... style_emoticons/default/pinch.gif   i am desperately in need of help for a friend.  Lady akasha has preveiwed a great explanation on energy vampires but now i need tools to deal with one.

My cousin is at the end of her rope.  She deals with a woman each day who i believe is a energy vampire and she is literally sucking every last inch of my cousin away.  This is not as easy as avoiding this woman..  she is carer for 15 disabled people and shares work shifts with this lady about three times a week.  i promised her (yes i had a beer or two) that my friends at GS would give me the tools or a spell or something ,,   we could throw holy water over her lol. style_emoticons/default/w00t.gif .. to help her get through the day with her.

BEGGING GROVELLING ANYTHING.........  please anything at all  style_emoticons/default/pinch.gif

Have her carry a piece of Black Tourmaline

[PIT leader]

As Tantric Kitten pointed out, this thread is 8 years old so has presumably already been resolved. This happens when certain threads are bumped.

[JIMOverSeer]

This thread may be 8 years old... but we can still learn from what others have to say on the matter.

In other words, there are others going through a similar experience... and the counsel still applies.  
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[earthlydelitesGStudy]

And we come back around to this post, so many more years down the road! Still very relevant today any new tips ?