Posted 03 September 2017 - 03:03 PM
I have been in some kind of strange trance like sad sort of state these past 16 days...but have not felt her presence at all until this morning when I was in a dream and out of the blue there she was all curled up under a table sleeping...no reason for her to be in this dream at all..just appeared there and was sleeping peacefully...so I reached down and kissed her gently on the side of the face...wishing she would wake up but she was so sleepy. I have been in a sort of shock like state of almost denial but in so much pain from my loss I can't feel anything day to day. I know she is around me but I saw her for the first time unexpectedly this morning in my dream....I have always had paranormal experiences since I was a child so really have wondered why I have not felt her presence since her death. It is so strange starting each day after 18 years without my little girl...so strange.
Posted 03 September 2017 - 11:45 PM
I know exactly how you feel I had to put our old girl down too. It is a very hard decision to make but a kind one.
As for not sensing her until your dream, I think you weren't ready until then I also believe you need to look towards a new start to each morning, take baby steps at first, and find some thing positive.
I also know it is a great place to share your paranormal experiences
Posted 04 September 2017 - 01:12 AM
Posted 04 September 2017 - 04:04 AM
These things worked for me...
When I get negative feelings over the loss of my loved ones I change the way I am thinking!
Instead of focusing energy thinking about the negative things before their death I will only think of the positive times I had with them. I know they wouldn't want me upset, negative and grieving their loss because they love us and want us to be happy. I also think to myself there is nothing I can do to change what has happened. The tears don't help I wish they could and I don't want to be sad and spending my energy on what I have LOST but when I can contact them!
Dreams of our loved ones are so special and gives such comfort. I would have changed my thinking about your 16 days without contact...... Instead of thinking I hadn't had any contact, I know we dream every night and we remember little if any of those dreams. SO... I would be thinking I just can't remember the visit.
I like to think our dreams are one way our loved ones can visit us and I like to think if I am thinking of them then they are thinking of me
I also found writing about them helped too
Posted 04 September 2017 - 11:09 PM
Posted 05 September 2017 - 01:21 AM
I am glad, you seem to be doing what is best for you. I have so many precious memories of my cats and other animals and the human variety that have passed over. I am glad they are all together and not suffering anymore. I think you are right when you wrote your little dog must have known it was her time and she was going off to a better place.